If you do not forgive them, you will become them. The painful residue that lingers within will eventually be the fuel that continues the viscous cycle. Release what no longer serves you love! Once you do, you will be free to draw in more love, more creativity and more happiness. Breathe and know that only you can relinquish the pain within.
Hello Divine Lights,
I hope this message finds you well and prospering. Tonight, I'm compelled to write on the notion of love. For some, the word alone can cause you to smile and become weak in the knees, for others it may cause your stomach to uncomfortably churn. Either way, I invite you to explore this notion.
Love is an inconceivable powerful energy. I've learned it can take us to different dimension of emotions and completely shake our foundation of priorities. No other human expression can compare to losing love. The loss of love is remarkable. The pain of a broken heart, the loss of a physical presence, the haunting of memories that linger and of course, the thoughts of "what if" and "what could I have done differently" deepens the trauma.
How to find love.
Look within. Find time to evaluate what makes you love, how you want to be loved and remind yourself that every expression can be driven by the force of love. When there's no love within or love bouncing back, our vibration becomes turbulent. The love you have for yourself is your foundation. Know yourself and love yourself before inviting additional love into your life.
If you have love.
Consider yourself lucky. If this love fulfills you, hold on to it. Never underestimate or belittle it. This gift of love comes in many variations. Only you have the power to reveal it. It's never hidden unless there's fear blinding you. Authentic love isn't shy nor doubtful, it only wants to be expressed. Don't let it frighten you, revel in this love.
I've lost my love, how can I move on?
Know that there's always life after love. Most importantly, know that there is an unlimited amount of love in this world and beyond this world. However, no love can be duplicated, so drop that expectation. Here's a little exercise. Read it and allow yourself time to explore. I want you to envision yourself in a white room with a beautiful table. On this table is a beautiful empty wooden locked box. In your right pant pocket you have a key to unlock this box. You have the choice to utilize this key. Once you're ready, remove the key from your pocket and unlock the box. Store every memory, thought and emotion of this particular love in this box. Lock it up and store the key away in your right pocket. Know that at any moment you are free to come back to this space and look through your box. You do deserve to love again! So smile and know your worth, what you want to bring in your life and the person you want to become.
With unlimited amounts of Love,
Remember.....there is a deeper strength and an amazing abundance of peace available to you Draw from this well; call on your faith to uphold you. Realize that life is a series of levels, cycles of ups and downs....some easy, some challenging. Through it all, we learn; we grow strong in faith; we mature in understanding. The difficult times are often the best teachers, and there is good to be found in all situations. Reach for the good. Be strong, and don't give up.
-Pamela Owens Renfro
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